October 31, 2005

Happy Halloween!

















Our annual halloween bash started at 4:30 today in our development. Everyone always gathers in one of the cul-de-sacs for fun, games, pizza and drinks. The favorite part for the kids is always the hayride. Once it gets dark all the kids go trick-or-treating of course. This year it was daddys turn to take the boys and I stayed home to enjoy the various fairies, princesses and vampires that rang our bell. The boys have already completed their annual ritual of trading candy. Once this is done, they make of a pile of the rejects...you know... the smarties, "yucky" bubble gum and the like. That goes to work with daddy tomorrow. I've already heard the first "my belly is hurting" which came from Payton, our 5 year old. Hopefully we can nurse him through it, if not I guess we'll have to pump his stomach to purge the ton of sweets he's already got in there!

As always, for more pictures, go to flickr.com. Just click on the pics to make them larger!

Intriguing Blog to Share

I came across a blog entitle PostSecret and thought I'd share it with you. People are asked to anonymously send in postcards with their secrets on them. The secrets range from sad confessions to the truly bizarre. Take a look for yourself and see what you find.

October 30, 2005

A Big Day in the Life of Tater Tot














Today was quite a day for Tater. It was time for a new pair of tennis shoes. His size 12 Reeboks just couldn't last another day. Not only had he worn them out, they were too small. Since he's now five, I decided to let him pick out the new shoes all by himself. We were are "Shoe Carnival" for at least 15 minutes before he finally decided on the perfect pair. He had a smile bigger than ever when he finally found them. As it turns out, he chose a pair of size 13 Nike high tops. His very first pair of high tops! Since dad was at work when we bought them, he insisted on going straight there to show him. He was so proud. He showed him several times how fast they made him run. Now he's super excited about Upward Basketball starting. According to him, he's going to "run faster and jump higher than everybody else" all because of these shoes. Do you think advertising has influenced him very much? Who knows, maybe he'll be the next Michael Jordan. Then, he can pay me back for those shoes.

October 29, 2005

That's our Bo!

I just love this picture. I took it on our way back from WV last week. He likes to ride in the back of our SUV on trips. He sleeps for a while and then jumps up on the luggage to get a better few for a bit. He's only been in our lives for 9 months now, but we'd be lost without him. He follows me around from room to room and can't wait for me to sit still long enough to get some lovin'. Of course he sleep with hubby and I too. We wouldn't have it any other way. He's even learned his nickname...Bozie. He answers to both. Now is that smart pup or what? His official name is "Little Bit Bogart"...."Bo" for short. He'll be celebrating his first birthday on January 5th, 2006. Mine and Darrin's birthdays are also in January. Isn't that just so sweet?

It's Pumpkin Pickin' Time

Friday, 10/28/05, Tater Tot's preschool took a field trip to Fisher's Orchard. Luckily, the parents got to share this fun time with them. We went on a hayride through the orchard to look for scarecrows and Johnny Appleseed. Then, we learned how farmers contribute to our society (okay, 4 & 5 year olds weren't really too interested in that part). But, they did enjoy the petting zoo and the maze they had to find their way through. After all that we got to pick our own pumpkin in the pumpkin patch and fill a bag will apples. To top off the morning they had cupcakes and such on the picnic tables out side. Tater really enjoyed the day, even if it was a bit nippy. Mommy had a pretty good time too.

You can see more pictures from this adventure at flickr.com. (Once you get to flicker.com, just click on the pictures to make them larger)

It's Party Time!

Last night (10/28/05) we hosted a Halloween party for Bubby (that's him in the picture to the left). He invited friends from his class and the neighborhood. Thirteen (pretty cool number, huh?) kids showed up and a good time was had by all.

We started things off with a little game of "pass the spider" and then moved on to Halloween charades. Then, they munched on pizza, chips, popcorn and cookies. They were really intrigued by the "witches brew" they drank. I bought a black cauldron, put orange pop in it and floated an ice hand in it to keep it cold. (Just fill a plastic glove with water, freeze, peel of the glove and you have a perfectly frozen hand). While they ate they watched "Scary Godmother" on DVD.

By this time they were all ready for a little dancing...to Halloween music of course. It was so cute watching 8 and 9 year olds dance. They were getting' jiggy with it, that's for sure.

The grand finale was a trip to the "doctor's lab." Hubby was dressed as a doctor with blood spattered scrubs on. I explained that he'd recently been operating on a zombie and had a few parts left over he'd like to share with them. The room was dark, lit only by candle light. We passed bags around with various "body parts" in them. They were instructed to stick their hand in the bags but not to peek. They got to feel the zombie's tongue (beef jerky), teeth (unpopped popcorn), intestines (cooked spaghetti), fingers (hot dog wieners cut in half), eye balls (peeled grapes), and the brain (boiled head of cauliflower). Needless to say that was a huge hit!

By this time it was time for the little gouls to head home. The two hours went by pretty fast, but I was ready for it to end...even if the boys weren't. This "farm girl," the "doctor," and my two little "ghosts" were pooped.

There are more pictures from the party at flicker.com. (click on the pictures to make them larger)

October 25, 2005

A Trip "Home"

This past weekend the boys and I ventured to WV. hubby had to stay behind and work unfortunately. Since both boys were off from school Monday, I decided to take advantage of the long weekend and go "home" to see my Mamaw. I hadn't been home since my Papaw passed away in late May. I didn't really think much about it having an effect on me, but I should have.

Just walking into Mamaw & Papaw's house was strange. I had grown so accustomed to seeing Papaw sitting in his lounge chair (which is what Mamaw calls it, it's actually a recliner). However, this time the chair was empty. He wasn't there for me to walk over to and share a gentle hug with. There was no laughter in the air. Papaw always had a witty one liner even when he didn't quite feel up to par due to his cancer. This time, instead of visiting with Papaw and soaking up his aura, Mamaw and I just sat and talked about him. We happily reminisced about days gone by. Memories are such precious and comforting things. I'm so very fortunate that I have a zillion wonderful, happy ones of the man God was gracious enough to let me call "Papaw."

I had the same empty feeling on Sunday when the boys and I walked into church. I never, ever walked through those doors that Papaw wasn't standing in the foyer to greet me. Of course he greeted everyone as they entered since he was the official Toneda greeter and bulletin passer-outer. However, he always made me feel extra special since he was usually pretty stingy with his hugs and I always got one! Then, later during the service, while the offetory hymn was being sang Papaw didn't come in. That was always his que to slip in the pew beside Mamaw. After greeting people, it was his job to count them...children's church, regular church, the nursery, etc. After we'd sit down he'd pull out his bulletin (which he always folded in half long ways) and show Mamaw the final count. She'd look at him and smile. Then, inevitably, he'd reach over and gently grasp her hand and hold it throughout the sermon.

We couldn't possibly leave without going to the cemetery to see his headstone. Since the last time we were there was for his funeral, I'd only heard about it. It's beautiful...or as beautiful as one can be I suppose. I know he's not there and he never has been. He's been with his Heavenly Father since the moment he left his body. It's just so surreal to actually see his name on a grave marker. He was my rock. I never even imagined my life without him being in it, physically that is. It's been five months now and I'm still not used to it. I truly don't know if I'll ever really be. My life as I have known it for 34 years is forever altered. I am blessed however....for I will see him again in his heavenly home and I know he'll be happy to show me around. Now I just have to get used to the fact that "home" will no longer be the same when I visit. That only makes sense really, since a large part of what made home "home" is now gone.

October 18, 2005

Friend of the Week

Each week at Tater Tot's preschool they study a different letter from the alphabet. This week the letter is "Pp." That means Tater (whose actual name begins with "P") is "friend of the week." He is so excited and has waited for this week since the beginning of school. He gets to take something each day this week to share with his classmates. So far, he's taken monster trucks both days! After all, that is his favorite thing in the world right now. He also got to help me create a poster board with pictures of his family on it. It is now on the wall in his classroom. Boy does he feel extra special this week. However, I think it may be going to his head a little. I'm going to make cookies in the shape of a "P" for their snack on Thursday. He said, "...and they have to eat them too, 'cause I'm P***** and this is my week." See what I mean about it going to his head?

October 17, 2005

Fall for Greenville

We enjoyed downtown Greenville this past Friday and Saturday nights at the 24th annual Fall for Greenville. Main Street was completely shut down to traffic. There was so much to see and do. We ate at "Sticky Fingers" (our favorite place in Greenville) both nights. Yes, it's that good! The boys enjoyed the inflatable slides and the rides. We saw a few friends we hadn't seen in a while, shopped a little and enjoyed the music of Billy Currington. He's a wonderful up and coming country music artist who I really enjoy.....he's pretty easy on the eyes too! We were all tired and rested well both nights. We're looking forward to next year already.

P.S. -- There are more pictures at flickr.com. (click on the pictures to make them larger)

October 8, 2005

Bubby's Sandwich

Bubby, our oldest son who is 8 1/2, wanted to make his own sandwich for lunch today. I had just cleaned the kitchen from top to bottom. He assured me however, that he would clean up any mess he made so I agreed. I saw him get out the bread, ham and cheese as I was passing through the kitchen on my way to the laundry room. After folding a load of clothes, I made my way back to the kitchen to survey the damage. Sure enough, he made a huge mess. But, he was proudly eating his own creation. Now, when I say creation that is precisely what I mean. It wasn't your ordinary, run of the mill ham and cheese sandwich. However, I didn't know this until he was almost completely done. As he was holding the sandwich up to take a bite I saw this brown goo dripping from the bottom. After he explained what it was I was totally grossed out. In addition to ham and cheese he also added cut up wieners and...are you ready for this.....chocolate syrup! Can you imagine? The worst part is, he ate it. This evening during dinner, he even bragged about it to his dad and offered to make him one. Much to his disbelief though, his dad passed. Oh, and by the way, he was going to add peanut butter but decided not too because "that would have been gross."

October 7, 2005

Almost Heaven.....West Virginia


My husband and I grew up in a small southern West Virginia town called Oceana. It's located deep in the valleys of Wyoming County.

(First off, let's get the pronunciation correct....it's O-see-anna. Most people who aren't from the area pronounce it, O-she-anna. Now that that's out of the way, back to the story.)

It was a wonderful place to grow up. There are about 1,550 residents in the 1.3 miles that make up the town. Everyone knows everyone else. I guess you could relate it to Mayberry. We even had a town policeman that we called "Barney." There are no stop lights or even four way intersections. There are two stop signs though.

When we grew up there, in the 70's and 80's, there were three restaurants...Pizza Hut, Hardee's and McDonalds. They didn't even show up until the 80's. There's still a post office where residents go to actually pick up their mail. There's no home delivery because the streets have no names. If you wanted to let someone know where you lived (just in case they'd been living under a rock all their life) you'd give them directions based on area businesses.

There used to be a store called "Lloyd's 21 hour grocery" that my family had a "tab" with. My mom would send me over to pick up a few things and they'd put in on our tab. Could you imagine actually doing that today? No way! Sometimes I'd even sneak a sucker or piece of gum in with the groceries and enjoy it on the walk back to our house. My mom never found out because the monthly bill wasn't itemized, thank goodness.

In school my husband and I knew every single other kid. I mean there were only 142 kids in my graduating class. How could I not know them all? Friday night football was a major event every week. The whole town would turn out to support the OHS Indians.

If we wanted to go shopping or out to a movie we'd have to drive to Beckley. That was an hours drive from our house. But, it was the closest "big" town. And, come to think of it, that's still the case. I couldn't imagine being an hour away from Wal-mart now. I'd never survive. Where we live now it's just 5 minutes town the road.

My grandfather had a new and used car business in town for years. He sold Ford, AMC, Jeep and later on Chryslers. He closed that dealership in the early 90's. I was devastated when I found out what he was planning to do. He just couldn't compete with the larger dealers. I spent many days there in my youth. It was within seeing distance from our house, right at the end of our alley. His used car lot, Otis Cook Motor Sales, was about two "blocks" (if we had such a thing) on down. He kept that lot open until November 2004, after 50+ years in business. He passed away on May 23, 2005, but my grandmother still lives there.

My dad also owned a used car lot, Tri-Don's, in town. He was open for 21 years before closing and "retiring" in 1998. He and my step-mom moved to Virginia after that. Darrin's parents lived there until 1999. They now reside in North Carolina. My two brothers have moved away too. However, my mother and step-dad still live there. They're still in the same house I grew up in. They're the die hards, the hold outs. Oh, and there's Darrin's grandma too. She still lives in the same house they've been in for 30+ years.

Our old high school is now a grade school. There is no more OHS. It was consolidated a few ago with another school. I guess nothing can stay the same forever, unfortunately. We moved away in 1991, two days after our wedding. And, although we wouldn't want to live there now, it sure is great to go back and visit. Life seems so much simpler there, in the valley.

  1. Oceana Statistics
  2. Oceana Welcome Sign (taken by my brother, Jim, from Indian Point)
  3. Picture of the town ( also taken by my brother )
  4. Picture of Laurel Creek (this is the creek behind our town park & schools)
  5. OHS Alumni Site (created and maintained by my brother)
  6. WV State Homepage
  7. Take Me Home Country Roads song

Take a look at these two awesome pictures taken by my brother, Jim, from Indian Point in Oceana.